What accuracy says is what a LRT is. But not a week or month, it needs to be a mystery and you guys need to go to a sex therapist. Something is not adding up.
You say she hasn't climaxed, with you or at all? Has she explored herself? Has she used a vibrator? Has she seen any amateur porn, to see what kinds of things she hasn't tried?
I have a hard time believing she has had affairs, gotten physical with them and not had any pleasure.
I strongly disagree with an open marriage for many reasons. STD's, emotional reasons, marriage vows, too many ways to get hurt or hurt someone.
Does she love you? Is she staying for the kids? How long has she gone to therapy? What type of therapy?
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay