Another Q. I unfortunately still often have the "how can she do this to me and my family?" question cycling through my brain. The best I can do to counter it is "she's on her journey and I'm on mine." Do you have any any other ways to counter that thought? We're getting started on the D process (mediated) and I really want to show her that I'm rooting for her independence and learning more about herself as an individual no matter what happens. I of course wish she could do that while being in a loving relationship with me, but I know that's not possible right now.
Thanks again. ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
