"The one thing that remains constant is change. You just have to go on faith that he's noticing your changes and reevaluating his choices based on what he sees."
Here is my question....how can he notice my changes if he isn't seeing me?
If your changes are genuine then they represent the new you which will be apparent in every interaction you have, whenever you are able to have one. Work on being the best version of YOU - focus on THAT - and you won't have to worry about your changes being noticed. In time, they will be. By everyone.
I know the short term can seem excruciatingly important, as if time is working against you, but this is a marathon, not a sprint. I know that's a cliche, but it's a cliche for a reason.
Do the work. Be who YOU want to be, and don't let anyONE or anyTHING get in your way. Be true to yourself, be respectable, be honorable...be someone only a fool would leave.
Be patient.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
