I was reading your story and feeling your anguish over your W responses. I can see you wanted to back her up, yet would not do it blindly. I think you have the respect of your D and that is so good in so many aspects.
I am inspired by how you handled that, I think you walk your talk and I respect you.
Thanks for posting AS.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy