Hey C2H- It has been a struggle for me dealing w/ stbx and her boyfriend and I am anticipating getting the pregnant and wedding bombs in the future.
I imagine it will set me back as it has you.
This is soul level stuff we are dealing with here so be patient with yourself and allow yourself the time to process and move through these things.
Maybe some people on here are completely detached and this news wouldn't affect them but I think that the majority of us would have our wounds triggered.