oops sorry MH, Brit slang again! I do agree with you about him having to make some changes if he ever wants to come back. NQ, I totally agree with what you're saying, he chose to leave therefore he should live with the consequences!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I've finished my college assignment! Yayyy! I've also found a friend who wants to do a boot sale with me in a couple of weeks Got some snacks to take with me tonight to the Christian convention for my son That'll stop him from getting bored Oh and I also bought a couple of Christmas pressies today, lol. We've got a bargain shop in town and I spotted a couple of bits for my son
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I get what your saying, but ultimately we are in control of our own state of being/feelings/moods
Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
Like I said, I don't think that I can say anything to him without it sounding harsh.
This is something you might want to work on and practice. You need to be able to communicate and stand up for yourself
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
TTD, about time you got your homework done! LOL. Good job.
Christmas already! Oh, boy. I'm actually in a holiday mood, but it's also shaping up to be a difficult holiday season. Got my birthday, Thanksgiving and Christmas. Far away from family, too broke to travel, and not sure who W will be spending holiday time with.
Oh, poor me. Not really starting a pity-party on your thread. Just pondering.
Trying, I'm glad you read my thread. If you haven't and have free time, you sound busy! You might want to read my old threads.
I have to appoligze as there are many, as I was a basket case and spiraled a lot! But... Through my threads there is so much amazing advice from so many people, it might be worth your time.
As I read your threads, you have some really great advice also, go back to what 25 has posted, she is one of the best (I said One of)
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
It's nice to see on here the H's that have reality hitting them in the face now about the situation they have put themselves in. Sometimes it feels like they are kids who have not learned to see consequences yet, lol. I hope my H will see the light someday soon.
TTD, good job on the college stuff, that must make you feel very good to have achievements accomplished.
And to all of you, MH, TTD, NQ, you silly squirrels, you keep up the humour (with a u!) which is why I love visiting this thread.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
TTD, about time you got your homework done! LOL. Good job.
Christmas already! Oh, boy. I'm actually in a holiday mood, but it's also shaping up to be a difficult holiday season. Got my birthday, Thanksgiving and Christmas. Far away from family, too broke to travel, and not sure who W will be spending holiday time with.
Oh, poor me. Not really starting a pity-party on your thread. Just pondering.
Well done on getting your assignment done TTD .
MH, no pity parties allowed - LOL
It's our Thanksgiving next weekend. And I don't want to think about Christmas - that's the anniversary of BD for me UGH . Guess I have to - S13 is already working on his Christmas list - may have to go without groceries for a week or two to cover the list
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I don't really want to be thinking about Christmas as it will be my first one without H It'll be even worse if it was my BD as well! I probably won't get anything else until December now, this is how I am, lol. It's just that I spotted these two things and thought I'd grab them as the bargain shop doesn't stock things for long. Once they've gone, they've gone! JP. I'll get round to reading some of your old threads when I get a chance. Sorry I'm not commenting much on your new thread, but I do read them PM, you're more than welcome to pop by my thread or NQs or MHs and join in the humour I think it's what keeps us upbeat and sane
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
. Guess I have to - S13 is already working on his Christmas list - may have to go without groceries for a week or two to cover the list 