Trying, I'm glad you read my thread. If you haven't and have free time, you sound busy! You might want to read my old threads.
I have to appoligze as there are many, as I was a basket case and spiraled a lot! But... Through my threads there is so much amazing advice from so many people, it might be worth your time.
As I read your threads, you have some really great advice also, go back to what 25 has posted, she is one of the best (I said One of)
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy