Ok MH you need more sleep - you're getting the ladies mixed up. TTD is the one with the heavy bookcase LOL smile - and the Fly Lady discussions. Although maybe I should google her and see what all that fuss is about smile

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks