TTD, your husband complaining about the tiny flat reminds me of when my W left last time, and then complained to me about how she had to live in a crappy apartment in a bad neighborhood and had to keep the heat down to afford to pay the utility bills.
Kinda like my H complaining about having to take the bus to and from work and his favourite bar now. And not having any money as well. Nothing to do with the fact that he chose to move out of the house (no rent, walking distance from work and bar) and into his friends' spare room (rent and too far to walk to work or bar) of course
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks