What I did read in your post above was that your being nonchalant (and I'm not sure what that means to you) "shocked" and "bothered" him.
Sometimes it takes realizing what we are about to lose to make us wake up and smell the coffee. There's a whole board full of LBSs here who can attest to that.
There's so much emotionally and physically going on with you guys right now it would be great if you could both agree to not do anything, including talk about R, until after the baby comes. I know I keep saying that but I think it would be so helpful.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
