....also I think your idea is good to take a little time off & maybe make a vision board/plan for the future for yourself...kind of a where do you want to see your self in the next few years; inside and out. A plan that you will follow through with even if your H does return.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope