I understand how you feel about your W right now. I keep thinking the same about my H. He really is not a person I want to be around right now because I don't like his behavior or his actions. Sometimes this makes it easier to detach too.

He is definitely not the person I used to know, I hope it comes back to him someday. I think it will take a powerful moment for them to come back to reality. What will that be? Who knows. But we have to be patient until it hits home for them.

Sometimes I feel like we are all on the same rollercoaster while our spouses are on the sidelines going in circles. smile

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.