FY "As happy as this makes me, of course I can't help but think one or two of these guys would love to hook up with her, (they're all older than her and D... and she's hot!) even if that's not what she's out for."
Of course these guys might like to hook up with your hot W, Forever. I'm sure there are chicks at your job and elsewhere who would like to hook up with YOU. But I look at it this way -- if your W had any intention in the world of hooking up, if it even crossed her mind, she would not share the photos and stories with you. She would hug the knowledge to herself in that dreaded secretive MLC way, and not let you know anything about it. Look at the difference in her attitude. Even the Riviera Maya trip with your sister - she'll be with your SISTER, who would be sure to "tattle" on her for any untoward behavior. Hooking up is far from W's mind, believe me! I don't think you have anything to worry about my friend!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17