I'm new to this site and the forums. I'm here because my husband of 27 years decided he wanted a separation. He then gave me a long list of reasons why no longer wanted to be with me. The fact that he works out of town and I only got to see him about 3 hours a week didn't help things at all. I decided I needed to see a therapist to help me through this and she recommended I read the divorce busting book and also join the site. So here I am. We have 3 grown boys who are all trying to stay neutral. My husband still comes to visit me every sunday but says he doesn't want to move back in with me. He says he's not even sure what he wants to do at all about us. He hasn't mentioned divorce but I don't know what he wants for sure. He sends so many mixed messages that it just confuses me and when he comes to visit I ask for answers he can't give me and I usually end up crying. I don't know what to do
