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[Tina825]

H came over last evening to get some paperwork (business related) and starting asking what I wanted to do about us? I told him he had to do NC with OW for "us" to even start to heal this marriage. He said he's tired of living like this. When I tell him the only option for me is to NC OW, he said "What's it matter, you'll never trust me anyway?", got agitated and then started talking about dividing our assets. I told him I'm not filing for D, if he wanted one, he would do all the work, (he's used to me doing all the work in everything), his main concern is this home, that Me and S9 are living in. He is tired of being uncomfortable being out of the house. It ended up with raised voices, hurt feelings and he said, "Because I don't want to be with you anymore, I'm going to have to pay?, I'll bankrupt the company and go work an hourly job" and left". I really need some advice right now as I really want to save this marriage but almost feel like it's too late.