TTD, your husband complaining about the tiny flat reminds me of when my W left last time, and then complained to me about how she had to live in a crappy apartment in a bad neighborhood and had to keep the heat down to afford to pay the utility bills. I did tell her then that she didn't have to do that, she could come home. She just ignored it at that time.
This time around I did it differently. I bought her a nice house and I pay for everything, plus I take her out at least once a week.
I'm kidding. Sort of. At least I have equity in the house. Hopefully you can laugh at me and feel better.
