Thank you Rose,Pud and GTO for your quick replys. Needed to feel some support. I will call my L tomorrow. I guess I have to make an appointment for next week. I had told h my focus right now was school and kids. When he was here tonight he didn't say anything abbot time with kids. So far, I let him see them whenever.

I am especially worried about s20. He's coming in for his brothers race. Not to hear about D . Think I will send h an email in the AM. I do not want h to spring this on s20 this weekend. I want boys together and I want to tell them together. H can still proceed. I feel p strongly about this.

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13