I'm so sorry about your sitch. At least she doesn't want a divorce - that's a positive! And even though you got the ILYBNILWY statement she still DOES love you. Just needs to fall BACK in love with you. In reading DR, it is suggested you aim to become that person she initally fell IN love with. You are still that person - just got to get back to him. It's there.
Even though I'm no vet, I just remembered this advice from DR. Hope this helps.
Me 59 H47 M12 T22 No kids BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY Filed 2/12/14 OW 11/13 The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell