The reason he keeps checkin' in isn't because of the car, it's because the two of you really had something. On some level, he realizes this. The car, or any other subject, is just a "safe" excuse for him.
Yep, Fy is right, whatever works is what they'll use to stay in contact. It's not really the car that he's interested in, it's you and what you're doing. So again, if you don't have any expectations let him use whatever excuse he wants to satisfy his curiosity.
Originally Posted By: Portia
And if I meet Mr. Tall Dark and Handsome before xSO wakes up - well, consequences is all I can say!
Now you're talkin' girl! Good PMA and too bad for him if he wakes up too late to realize that he's given up the best thing that happened to him. With Snodderly, Bea and all of the other long time DBers guiding us, we can't go wrong no matter how our situations end. We have the best chance on this website of either saving our relationship and building a new one or evolving to a place that we can say that we gave it our best shot. Either way we will survive our spouses/so's mlc. The other website sounds okay if you are looking for support personally but not so much insight and advice on what may work to preserve a marriage/long term relationship.
I'm running on fumes here after another near sleepless night so I'll stop the rambling and wish you a good evening and a full nights sleep!
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
