Argh, well I was trying to stay dark. H emailed me the dissolution agreement, and told me to read it and agree to it before he filed. I told him I was busy this upcoming week (which I am), but that I have received his email, I'm not ignoring it, and that I will read it when I come back. I told him just to remind me in case I forget. Ok, it's driving me crazy. Why is he pushing the divorce so fast? California has a 6-month waiting period, and he says he doesn't want to wait another month as he wants to tie up this loose end in his life. Has anyone else experienced this? With such a major decision at stake, how can anyone be so certain that they've made up their mind in a few months for something that has been going on for a few years? I just don't understand it. Why the need to get things done yesterday? Even if I wanted to divorce someone (and believe me I have thought of it before this event), I would want to let the idea simmer for awhile before I acted on it. I just want to understand the rush. Please someone explain it to me.
