Thanks willbwell. I know how he is, really, it just came right after my H rebuffed me so it stung a little more than it should have.
And yes!! Sing out loud!! Good for you.
On another note, within the span of 15 mins: -My bookstore called to say my DR copy was in - YAY! -My H left vm that he won't be home until 9 or so 2nite - BOO!(But I did not acknowledge it in any way, nor did I obsess over it like normal -so YAY!) -Got in the car to leave work and what comes on the radio? Tina Turner's "What's Love Got to Do With It?" LOL, that actually made me laugh at the timing of it all. Sheesh.
On the second bullet, I told myself that I didn't care what he was doing because I really don't like the person he is right now and I cannot control it. So he can just do what he wants with whom he wants because it is all irrelevant to me. There was a lot more talk on this to myself but not worthy of board posting
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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