Ok, thanks for the bday wishes all...I certainly wasn't pandering for them by writing what I did earlier but they are for sure appreciated....By the way, I turned 56 today and honestly never felt better physically. Dropping all the weight I have has been an eye opener for me...WE ARE NEVER 2OLD TO LEARN!!!
"There's absolutely no relation between "not being nice" to having zero contact. That's the WAS script to build up a Berlin Wall between you guys. They're angry, confused, lost, and in pain which is why they do not want any reminders of us. Boy they sure work hard at putting distance between us...but with time they'll slowly crumble brick by brick."
Wonka, thank you for reminding me of the above. I know this to be true but forget sometimes. (maybe cause I'm old). We haven't had zero contact but it has been sparse for sure. Twice she has initiated contact which may have been a little bit of the mortar holding the bricks together loosening. But the wall and distance she continues to maintain.
TTD, thanks fer the "consolation" happy bday.....lol...and by the way I was reading your sitch earlier, clearly yer hubby is in a FOG with a serious injection of delirium.....
Ditto on the Happy B-Day. I hope when I get that old, I'll be in the best shape of my life! Just kidding. Don't hit me. Reminds me of those BowFlex commercials, if you've ever seen them.
Well, speaking of mistakes, I told my WAW about the drunk lady hitting on me in a cab... live and learn, live and learn... repeat as needed. The learning that is. Not sure we can repeat the living.
Good job on the getting in shape, and the attitude. Don't worry about the occasional bad day. They happen. Vent. Journal. We got yer back.
I agree PM I temporarily lost my sense of humour today, but it's back now That's all down to good old GALing
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
