Originally Posted By: MrBond
I can tell you one thing though. Things will not change if all you do is concentrate on the negative.

What are YOU doing to improve YOU? Have you really looked at yourself and figured out things that need to change?

Of course she hates you right now. Of course she needs to hate you to continue with this. Of course she's telling people her side of things and making you seem like the bad guy. Guess what, there isn't a thing you can do about how she feels right now or what she tells people. All you can do is work on you and prove to her and everyone else who you are.


Originally Posted By: snafu22
She has me by the short hairs. Its her being in control and being listened to that she wants. The whole thing is sick and twisted.

What is she in control of?

Is she in control of what you're doing to improve you?

In control of how you act or present yourself?


Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are

Turn your trials into your testimonies

Don't believe everything you think

Expectations are resentments waiting to happen