Great post Sandi, especially that last paragraph!!! I think every guy on these boards should read that. It's kind of instinct for us to want to 'win her back' and lose site of the bigger picture.
A book I was recommended that really helped me figure out the differences with men's and women's needs has to do with mars and venus. Sure it won't be hard for you to find.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
