She is not too happy about that and has been pestering me for the last two days to give her the money. I keep telling her that I will pay it when I get home.
Maybe she's just concerned you won't get around to paying it. I would follow through on that promise and pay it this evening when you get home, then let her know it's taken care of. If she rants about it, well then you'll know she had other plans for the money. But if she's relieved, then you'll know she was just worried about it getting paid.
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I will pose the question to all of you. What keeps you hanging on to the hope of reconciling with your S?
The many success stories. I think if people knew how long this really takes and were committed to sticking it out, there would be even more success stories. Unfortunately most LBS's want to throw in the towel and move on after only months when realistically it takes a year or two for most WASs to come out of the fog. That said, I'm not sitting around watching the phone waiting for my W to call. I'm living life without her. Maybe she'll come back some day and maybe she won't, either way I will be fine. I do keep a small flame of hope burning though, just in case
