Nukem, I am new to this site but not new to infidelity and have been dealing with a WS for a long time. Are things actually progressing with you and your ex wife or is she just using you to get some chores done?

I am asking this because there were times I thought my husband wanted to reconcile but it was the drama that was keeping him and his OW together. They needed me more than they knew.

Please don't be available everytime she calls. Date, it doesn't have to be a relationship, but she divorced you didn't she? If she seriously wants you back she will stop calling you to come do stuff for her and will call you just to call you.

WS moves out 9/11
OWH DD#1 12/11
FR#1 1/12
DD#2 2/12
WS leaves 4/12
WS tries FR#2 6/12
WS/OW move in 7/12
WS leaves OW 9/12
WS back with other OW 12/12
Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13
WS files divorce 8/28/13