Ok, thanks for the bday wishes all...I certainly wasn't pandering for them by writing what I did earlier but they are for sure appreciated....By the way, I turned 56 today and honestly never felt better physically. Dropping all the weight I have has been an eye opener for me...WE ARE NEVER 2OLD TO LEARN!!!
"There's absolutely no relation between "not being nice" to having zero contact. That's the WAS script to build up a Berlin Wall between you guys. They're angry, confused, lost, and in pain which is why they do not want any reminders of us. Boy they sure work hard at putting distance between us...but with time they'll slowly crumble brick by brick."
Wonka, thank you for reminding me of the above. I know this to be true but forget sometimes. (maybe cause I'm old). We haven't had zero contact but it has been sparse for sure. Twice she has initiated contact which may have been a little bit of the mortar holding the bricks together loosening. But the wall and distance she continues to maintain.
TTD, thanks fer the "consolation" happy bday.....lol...and by the way I was reading your sitch earlier, clearly yer hubby is in a FOG with a serious injection of delirium.....
