Thank you AS. You, bug, MrCas, fly, and others alway offer great insights. I always greatly appreciate the help. I really do hope to pay it forward someday.
On Tuesday night I did try to get w to open up about her meds. I am familiar with some and asked her what she was taking. She said she didn't know. She just called them her happy pills.. I encouraged her to keep with them and stay happy... She is not happy, but hopefully the meds help a little.
I will continue to try to stay present in her life. We had no contact yesterday. I may text her a joke or something funny today. She seems to respond positively when I send "entertaining" texts.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)