Trying,
If you want to give me a recap of your story and where you are now and concerns that would be great, otherwise I'll read your threads soon and get back with you.

Please don't think I have the answers just because of the turn in my sitch, but I am happy to give you my two cents.

Books... I'll make a list when I get home lol too many to remember, but codependent no more is always a good one.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy