TTD, you've just got your priorities right. Friends come before decluttering . After all, that bookcase isn't going to care whether you deal with it or not, but your friends might not appreciate being less important to you than a little bit of decluttering.
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ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
. After all, that bookcase isn't going to care whether you deal with it or not, but your friends might not appreciate being less important to you than a little bit of decluttering.