Pregnant h wants a divorce after deployment

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Everyone jumps on the borderline bandwagon, it may be true but without proper diagnosis, you don't know.

Borderline is not something to lightly throw into a conversation. Have you read about the success rates of treating it? I'd be seriously praying that it's not that.

Your H has a MH issue and needs treatment, whether of not he gets that remains to be seen. You have to protect yourself and your children.

You question is going to be how do you handle this? You need more than an MC to get you through this. I'm glad you're going to see someone.

This is tough stuff. Find a support group too, if you can.