H stopped by last night. Usually he callas before coming. I was helping d with hw. Had fixed dinner. Offered to h. He declined. Talked about a dr appoint. Makes comment that I want something to happen to him( jokingly...)Asked if I was vengeful. I replied no, I'm not. Wish I would have asked... Why should I be ?or why would you think that?
I am staying busy with my classes. Miss not being able to share about it with h. Sometimes would just like to tell h about my day.
I have been told that it is acceptable, even a good idea, to ask clarifying questions. Sometimes I am so focused on empathizing, I miss opportunities to understand my W better.
I'm with you on missing someone to share my day with. Before BD, we take our conversations for granted, like breathing. I don't think anyone thinks the conversations might end. Only when they are gone does it feel like the oxygen has left the room.
