I'm glad to hear you are doing well, I hope your eye heals up soon. Please don't worry about not checking in with everyone here, it's ok to have a busy life of your own!
It doesn't sound like H had a romantic time fixing toilets in a dumpy one bedroom apartment with 3 women! Maybe now he'll better appreciate his comfortable home with his faithful and loving W.
Did he show you any pictures? Did he ask about your trip?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl