Rosa, Have a discussion w/your surgeon about your current eye's recovery. You should be seeing much better by now. I wouldn't have the other eye done until I was certain that the other one was recovered nicely. There is no need to go around w/both eyes acting up periodically.
As for your h, apparently, the lifestyle didn't bother him. I can't believe he was charged him $500 to stay in the dump and then he also did repairs for the woman. The mother saw a fool coming and took advantage of him. I'm not at all surprised that the original flat fell thru.
If I were him, I would see my dentist and have that extraction area checked. He could very well have a dry socket or infection.
If this isn't a bust on a fantasy, I don't know what is. I'm praying that things will die a natural death and the RT goes back into the woodwork.
Good luck today at the surgeon's.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
