Hi, sorry you're experiencing this, but it's good you're on top of it early on. Was he not bad at connecting with you during the three years dating? Only now, after marrying you?
With any bad pattern it takes both of you to continue it and only one of you to change it. If you havent read Dance of Anger and other Harriet Lerner books that might be helpful to you.
Are you looking for any bad habits you might need to 180? Are you GAL?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
