9/2012 found out husband was having EA. He moved out in 10/12, asked for a divorce but never pursued it. We started counseling and he moved back in home 2/13. Things seemed to be going well until end of 7/13, I felt something not right. Sure enough, 8/13 caught him talking to her on secret phone. He moved out immediately into one of our empty rentals.
We own our own business (I do paperwork), he drives, and have a 9s. He will send texts about "us" and call during the day, then goes silent for a few hours then starts texting and calling again. I'm tired of being on this roller coaster.
Went to IC and she helped in set up boundaries. Problem is, I can't get H to commit to a visitation schedule with our son. He still seems to be doing what he wants, when he wants. BTW, he is now using his regular phone to contact OW.
I'm at my wits end, I'm tired of being strung along and not knowing what to do. Any thoughts?
Me-49, H-45 M - 4, Together 9 SS-9 Bomb Dropped - 9/12 Separation - 10/12 Reconcile -2/13 Separation - 8/2013 Reconcile - 10/2013 Separation - 12/2013 Reconcile - 2/14 Separate - 5/14 H Filed D - 8/14
