Thanks FF,

Welcome back, hope you had a good time in Canaries, which island did you visit?

Another chapter starts tomorrow, out of bedsit land & get my house back. Although I thought at the back of my mind bedsit land would end up with me moving back to WAW it was not a realistic thought & after reading everyones situations on here its so clear that time & space is the only possible healer. Now I'm looking forward to fresh start in my own space. Still having `down' days but thankfully they are sporadic, a few weeks ago I never thought they would go away!

Communication with WAW is now intermittent & initiated by her although I txted a couple of days ago ref a property issues, did not receive a reply so 8 hours later just sent a courteous txt checking if shes ok as I had not had a reply (she is quite poorly at the moment) & she rang me back immediately saying she had sent a txt to which I said sorry but I had not recieved it. A short call with more validating then she texted back that night to say sorry for being `snappy, with me on the phone.....She never apologises for anything! That was original.

Hope everyones good


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13