Incognito because you said you changed your screen name. I thought maybe that's why you didn't want to link to the original posts.

I like to read the initial posts because it's like exposition in a story. Lays everything out. Not having it is like starting a 10 chapter book at chapter 5.

But, it's your story and I respect your choice.

You've made an important discovery, only by forgiving yourself can you forgive others.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss