Thanks Wonka for the input. I would probably tend to agree with you. Generally it was just something I brought up to get peoples views. In all honesty I would still thinking too much about the missus to enjoy myself anyway.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.