AS, the wait for the wife comment was a tongue in cheek moment, rather than should I wait for her. I wouldn't have agreed with you about the divorce happens way before the paperwork a few weeks ago, but would agree with you know. I can only speculate my wife wants nothing to do with me or our marriage at all. It is probably to her benefit that I leave the country and go back to the city. As for the friend with benefits, then it is simple, I won't be initiating anything, and will have to think carefully if or when an offer comes.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
