T1000, I am still caught up in my wife. Therefore I wonder if going this way would help me getting over her? The friend isn't insisting of benefits, more the way of mutual thoughts it could go that way. I still think that I haven't seen or heard from the wife for 3 months, apart from my one text that wasn't replied. I haven't seen or heard from any of her family or the good friend for even longer. My comment about waiting for the wife was more tongue in cheek, rather than a feeling.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.