Your postings inspire me and help me to keep my eye on the prize. I am coming up on that 2 yr mark when H moved out and the A was revealed.
I'm beginning to see the different stages I've hit as I've moved along this journey. This is a strange one. We have been living different lives for nearly two years!!!, he is probably with the old OW or maybe a new one, he's back to anger...I'm healthier, happy that I'm not living with his insanity right now...It's just weird to be linked to someone but not.
On the one hand, I feel overcome that he's been gone for so long and I'm beginning to get awkward pressure and questions from friends and family--most in disbelief that I've hung on this long.
That brings me to the other hand. I'm still here and I've worked hard to get to this point. Sometimes it's been at a snail's pace, but I'm getting there.
I have no brilliant thoughts, just wanted to let you know, I understand how hard this is, was, continues to be and I admire your courage.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
