Ok, vent time. Maybe I'm just hormonal and spending way too much time thinking about this, but the more I think about this situation, the angrier I get. I think H is lying about how long the affair was and when it started. He says it happened by the end of his tour. I think it started right at the beginning. I just have a feeling because no man would plan on leaving everything in his life for a two week fling.
Also, he says they were "reprimanded" for their friendship while in Afghanistan by some Air Force colonel. I'm tempted to contact him and report the woman.