I would like to call the pastor that married my H and I, but I am way too embarrassed. I remember him saying during our ceremony that he just knew our marriage would last b/c of the behaviors he'd seen from us the times we sat and talked w/ him. *sigh*
You seem to be doing really well though Kd, I struggle on my days off too w/ sadness and thinking about things...just try to keep busy and think positively. I hope your W takes the opportunity to speak with the pastor, but be strong in your no contact for now, and in the mean time keep up with your changes; continue to be better for you!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope