Hope the result of your interview was positive! I can't recall but is your H open to going to MC at some point? If not do you think he'd be open to a program like Retrouvaille? As you know, I am no vet (lol), but I think his trust issues need to be discussed to get to the root of it and kill it. I am sure at some point you'll want to discuss your needs and how his leaving changed things for you as well.
Hope everything is still going great in your world though! Have a wonderful week
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope