Originally Posted By: snafu22
Her mind is made up.


Sure it is. Right -now-. She once made up her mind to marry you too. So clearly, she has the capacity to change her mind. She CAN change it back again. It happens all the time.

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Last week, I asked her if she had feelings for me.


Don't ask such questions. Are you familiar with Sandi2's 37 Rules? Read them daily and live them.

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First she said yes, then not really. She seemed confused.


That's because she IS confused. Most WAS's are.

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My shrink said all along there's another guy.


Marriages do survive infidelity. There's hope as long as you care to hold it in your heart. She's done for now, so work on you and back off of her and give her time and space. You never know what the future holds.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57