First I so appreciate all of your post on this forum, I have gained great insight from your words lately on Flo's pages.
My W had an EA with a childhood friend she reconnected with. They sexted with pics, it never became a PA, but she was in deep emotionally. I will first say I do not blame her at all, as I was not there emotionally for her or physically really. We are as you have seen working on building a new marriage. She is one of the kindest, caring people I have ever met and ties in with her request to have her friend remain in her life. We have agreed on her having him as an acquaintance friend, where she text him once or twice a year to see how he and his family is, etc. She says she cannot just cut someone out of her life that is a friend. She has apologized many times for the A and says she regrets it deeply and wishes it never happened. I am sooooooo tore over having him in her life at all. Do you feel I am being fair or naive?
Please feel free to bring this to my thread.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
