Yes, I do agree with what you are saying. I have read those same things about MLC. I also don't think my H knows how to recognize when he is depressed. It is a very hard thing to know when you are going through it, I've been there.
It also ties back to some things he did with his parents, like having a blowout in his teens and moving out to be on his own. He has always 'run away' from his problems instead of trying to see them and make them better. Makes A LOT of sense!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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