But regardless of what, you that's your decision to live like that. That's fine and no one has a right to tell you it's wrong.
HOWEVER, saying that M is just a financial status or whatever IS exaggerating. It is a real shame that you don't know what a real fulfilling relationship is that hits on all points - emotional, intellectual, spiritual and sexual. And a shame that your W won't either. Personally I feel that you've only got one shot in this world and so you might as well make it count.
Hopefully your W can grow as you have.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.