Thanks RH. I just posted on your thread. I still have hope but not much. It bothers me to see my girls so hurt. Never in a million years would I have thought H would do this to them.

He was such a great Dad. I know he is in such pain and hopefully this part won't last too long. If anything is going to pull him out of this the girls might. I just don't know how much longer I can hold on. Every time I think I'm done I read your thread or someone else's and I say I'll hold on a little longer.

One thing I don't understand is I thought I read somewhere that they need to be nudged along. When is this? Did you have to do this with your H? We don't really talk much but with D21 especially not talking to him this may be the little nudge he needs.

He goes to his IC today. I'm sure H will tell him about D21 not speaking to him and going off on OW. Of course IC has told H to dump OW if he wants to get better. So he really has no one to blame but himself but, I still get the blame.

Looking forward to going out of town with D16 this weekend. It will give us some time just the two of us. It also helps get my mind off everything going on at home.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out